Controversial relationship therapist Blessing Okoro, popularly known as Blessing CEO, has once again made headlines with a passionate message to women, emphasizing the importance of hard work and independence. In a video, Blessing CEO delivers a motivational speech, encouraging women to strive for self-sufficiency and avoid depending on others for basic needs.
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The video, which runs for 136.69 seconds, features Blessing CEO standing in what appears to be a well-organized closet or storage room, surrounded by shelves of shoes and accessories. Dressed in a striking blue dress with a beige top underneath, her long, straight hair cascades down as she speaks directly to the camera. The setting, with its array of fashion items, underscores her message of empowerment through personal achievement.
In the video, Blessing CEO begins by acknowledging that she might not be everyone’s favorite but insists on sharing her perspective. “I might not be your favorite, right? But I want to talk to you. Women walk, work, hustle so that hunger will not be the reason you are falling in love,” she states, her tone firm and earnest. She continues, “Walk so that you can have a voice, work so that you can be able to get yourself the basic things of life.” Throughout the video, Blessing CEO emphasizes the importance of financial independence, arguing that it prevents women from being “blinded” to their purpose in life.
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“Hustle hard so that you will not be blinded, the reason why God brought you to this world,” she asserts. She also touches on societal expectations, suggesting that while men are often burdened with providing, women have a unique advantage in making money. “To suffer, it is the job of men. Who so far until the soy to get their delivery? Bread, it is a course upon man but it is a blessing upon women,” she explains, advocating for women to leverage this advantage. The video’s subtitles, sampled at various intervals, capture key points of her message: “Work so that men do not debase you with peanuts to keep food,” “Walk so that you become an independent woman that can step out in society and share your voice,” and “Walk so life would have meaning.” These phrases encapsulate her call to action, urging women to prioritize their own financial stability and societal impact.
The post, titled “Dear women, work hard so that hunger will not be the reason you’re falling in love. Hustle, so that you can be that independent woman you deserve and get yourself the basic things of life” – Blessing CEO advices her fellow women, has garnered significant attention. As of 05:08 PM WAT on Tuesday, May 27, 2025, it has sparked a range of reactions, with some users agreeing with her message and others critiquing her past actions or the delivery of her advice. For instance, @AlayeNG commented, “At least she no yarn dust. The message is clear work so your Pu$$y no go suffer for Benin and Lagos boys hand,” while @Don_wayne noted, “I have never never agreed with this woman until today.” Others, like @OT, pointed out the irony of her advice given her personal life, saying, “The Louis Vuitton bag behind her con be like parrot 😂😂.” Critics such as @Tj_kristoff questioned her credibility, referencing her relationship with IVD, stating, “This lady ehh. After deceiving so many gullible Nigerian girls she rush and started dating IVD now she’s giving them advise to hustle. Nkechi ehh 🤣.”
Blessing CEO’s history of controversial statements and her role as a relationship therapist have often placed her in the public eye. Her advice aligns with previous comments she has made, such as her 2024 claim reported by The Nation Newspaper that “women work harder than men,” where she argued that making money is easier for women and that they should not rely on men to the point of laziness. This latest video reinforces that narrative, focusing on empowerment through economic independence. The video’s setting and Blessing CEO’s attire also reflect her public persona, often associated with luxury and self-made success.
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The backdrop of designer items may symbolize the fruits of hard work she advocates for, though it has also drawn criticism for appearing contradictory to her message of humility and necessity. As the conversation continues to unfold on X, Blessing CEO’s video serves as a catalyst for discussions on gender roles, financial independence, and the responsibilities of public figures in shaping societal attitudes. Whether her message resonates or divides, it undoubtedly keeps her at the center of Nigeria’s cultural dialogue, prompting reflection on what it means to be an independent woman in today’s society.
