BBN Pere advises men whose girlfriends plan on taking a girls trip to Cancun

Reality TV star Pere Egbi recently shared a word of caution for men in relationships. Using his verified X account, the former Big Brother Naija housemate advised men to approach their girlfriends’ plans for a “girls’ trip” to destinations like Cancun or tropical resorts with caution. 

He explained that such environments, often filled with alcohol, sunshine, and an air of carefree indulgence, can lead to lowered inhibitions. Pere noted that peer pressure from friends—especially single ones—could push women into situations they might later regret. 

While emphasizing the importance of trust in relationships, he warned against blind trust. According to Pere, understanding the dynamics of these scenarios is essential to maintaining respect and setting healthy boundaries. 

In his words:  

“Men, let’s be honest—if she’s planning a ‘girls’ trip’ to Cancun or some exotic location, it’s rarely just about lounging with margaritas by the pool. Tourist hotspots like these often attract people chasing a ‘no one will know’ kind of experience. 

“When you combine drinks, sunshine, and a ‘no strings attached’ vibe, boundaries can blur. Add a circle of single friends hyping her up, and the pressure is real.  

“It’s not about being controlling, but being aware of the potential risks. Respect in a relationship is about more than freedom—it’s about boundaries that preserve trust and commitment. Blind trust without understanding the dynamics? That’s a gamble.”  

Pere’s advice has since sparked debates online, with many agreeing with his cautionary stance while others call for mutual trust without paranoia in relationships.