Muma Gift Eke, better known by her stage name Muma Gee, is a well-known Nigerian singer and actress who has revealed details of her sexual life. Muma Gee disclosed that she experienced abuse as a girl growing up. “Well, a few times,” she says. I am a woman and a girl child, so even other women who have claimed to be my friends have tried to mistreat me. Although I was unaware that she was a lesbian, she obviously failed because I retaliated with my life. Speaking about men, it has occurred and was reported by someone I trusted.
I have to admit that I was unaware of its significant implications until I became a girl; I only knew that I had grown up not pursuing males. And you can’t entice me, no matter how “beautiful” a man is. Never! No man, even if it involves rape, can get me laid unless I want to! You won’t succeed if you try to be Goliath! My friends used to say things like, “I wish my boyfriend was around and he could just feel me,” while I was growing up. I imagine myself asking myself, “Are these girls okay?” since I don’t sense that garbage around me. Though it wasn’t happening to me, I had no idea that these were common experiences for women.
I don’t actually have a sexual urge. For me, it is really challenging, and I think it is a waste of time. Prior to my marriage, I was aware that a woman’s responsibility was to provide sexual and other forms of satisfaction to her husband; therefore, having children was necessary. Women in my culture are expected to have children; it is not acceptable for them to be childless. I didn’t have a child for about three years after being married. I spent those three years acclimating to the new system I was entering since I was not accustomed to it. At the time, I won’t claim to have been a virgin.
Imagine me going back to the London Dungeon—my marriage was worse than that. I’m improving myself. I wish I could collaborate with a psychologist. Seeing my children grow every day and learning a lot from them makes me feel like a kid again, especially when I assist them with their homework. I find it enjoyable. Together, we go swimming. My sole regret is that I detested men because of one man. I regret to inform you that, with God’s help, I will overcome, thrive, and perhaps even fall in love again and have a happily married life.
